Dating tips for finding the right relationship
Looking for true love??this tips will help you build a strong and love lasting relationship.
Hindrance to finding a healthy relationship:
Are you looking for love?are you finding it hard to meet the right person? When you’re having trouble finding a love connection, it’s all too easy to become discouraged or buy into the destructive myths out there about dating and relationships.
Life as a single person offers many rewards, such as being free to pursue your own hobbies and interests,enjoying your own company,treasuring your leisure time in isolation.However when you are ready to share your life with someone and want a long lasting relationship,life as a single person can be so frustrating, when it comes to finding the right person to build a relationship with.
Maybe while growing you never had a role model of a healthy relationship and you doubt that such thing even exist,or maybe your past dating experience were of bad propel and you lack the knowledge of how to make a relationship work thereby leaving u with the doubts of ever finding a perfect love.
Being attracted to the wrong type of person or you keep making the same bad selection over and over,due to your unresolved past experience.or maybe you are not putting yourself in the best domain to meet the right person.or even when you do,y yo don't feel confident enough
Whatever may be the case,you can overcome your hindrances ,e eve if you are being turned down repeatedly or have a bad record when it comes to dating,these tips can help you get on the right track to finding a healthy,longlasting relationship.
What is a healthy relationship
A healthy relationship is when two people develop an interconnection based on:
* Respect
* Trust
*Honesty
* Support
*Good communication
* Equality/impartiality
* Fondness
Dating Tips 1:keep things in view
Don't center your life around the search of finding love, concentrate on things that makes you happy, your career,health, your relationship with with family and friends.it will keep you in check and make you a more interesting person when you finally meet the special someone
Be honest about your flaws and imperfections: Everyone has flaws and aren't perfect.In order for a relationship to last, you want someone that would love you for who you are,not what you'd like to be,or the person they think you should be. what you take as flaws may be something another person finds peculiar and appealing.By discarding all deception which leads to an honest and fulfilling relationship you'll encourage the other person to do so.
Tip2: build a genuine and real connection
Dating is a game that is tiring and only the strong hearted can keep up,it's natural to worry about how you'll meet and whether or not your date will like you.But no matter how you feel socially or being shy you can overcome your fears and self consciousness and build a great connection.
Focus:To fight first_date nerves, focus your attention on what your date is doing and saying and also what is happening around you rather than what your internal thinks.Be fully focused on the present moment,that will help take your mind away from your insecurities and worries.pay attention and make effort to truly listen to the person and get to know them quickly.little things go a long way,such as remembering the stories they've told you,what's going on with their life, and their preference.
Put your phones away:don't get too attached to your smartphones because it might be a distraction to you connecting to the person.expression, gestures and non verbal communication tells more about another person,you must be tuned in ,in order to get better knowledge of each other.
Curiosity: when you are really curious about someone's else feelings,stories,opinions it will definitely show. They'll admire you absolutely for it.when you try and improve and promote yourself to your date, you'll see that it gets more interesting and attractive,but when you have no interest in your date therest no need pursuing the relationship further.
Tip3:look up for dating site;onl online dating and match making events are enjoyable by some people,but others may look at it or feel more like a job interview.instead of scouring dating sites or hanging out in bars,think of your single life as a great opportunity to expand your social circle and participate in new events.Make having fun your priority.by changing activities you enjoy and putting yourself in new domain,you'll get to meet new people who share similar interests and values as you.You still have engaged yourself even if you don't find someone special
Tip4:don't be afraid of being rejected;At some point in time,everyon e looking for love is going to have to deal with rrejection-it is an inevitable part of dating for both the person being rejected and the person doing the rejection.But by being honest with yourself and others , you would be able to handle rejection positively.never spend too much time worrying about it.Do not beat yourself up or blame yourself over any mistake you think you made,if it happens continuously ,take a break,reflect on how your relationship with others is,and the flaws you need to work on,then move on.Never surpress your feelings when you feel bad,always acknowledge them.Dealing with rejection is a healthy way to increase strength and flexibility.
Tip5-Handwritting on the wall:watch out for red flag behaviours,it can indicate the relationship is not going to lead to a long lasting love.Always trust your mind and insticts and always pay attention to how the other person makes you feel.
Some red flag signs
*The relationship is exclusively sexual:A meaningful relationship depends on more than just good sex,but when there is no interest in the other person other than a physical one then there's a red flag indicator
*Controlling behavior:when there is a desire on the part of one person to control and show superiority over the other,and stop them from having independent thoughts and feelings.
*Jealousy: when one partner doesn't like the other spending time with friends and family outside the relationship.
*Alcoholic dependent:you can only relate,communicate,laugh,play and have sex when one or both of you are under the influence of alcohol or other substance.
Tip6:Trust issues;you can love someone you trust but at the same time you might not trust the person you love.Trust is a very solid foundation to every close relationship.it is not just developed overnight.it is developed over time as your connection with the person goes deeper.
But if you are an insecured person,or someone who has been betrayed or abused in the past you may find it hard and impossible to trust others and find lasting love.
If you have trust issues,you y romantic relationship will be dominated by fear_fear of being betrayed by the other person,fear of feeling vulnerable or being let down.but it's very possible to Learn to trust others by working with the right therapist or in a supportive group of therapy setting, you can indentify the source of your mistrust and explore ways to build a more fufilling relationship.
Tip7: nurture your relationship; finding the right person is just the beginning of the journey,not the destination,so in order to move from casual dating to a more committed and loving relationship, you need to nurture the new connection
By investing in it because no relationship will run smoothly without attention and the more you invest on each other the more you'll grow.Even when you are busy or stressed out always make out time to enjoy free activities together.
You partner is not a mind reader,so you have to tell them about your feelings.when you both share your needs and desires the bond between you will become stronger and deeper.
Always resolve conflict without humiliation, degradation or insisting on being right,because we all have our differences ,soci so influence and different upbringing,it's very important that you aren't fearful of conflict.
Every relationship change over time. what you want at the beginning of the relationship may be very different from what you and your partner want a few months or years later.so accepting change in your healthy relationship will not only make you happy but also make you a better person and more generous.
Are you looking for love?are you finding it hard to meet the right person? When you’re having trouble finding a love connection, it’s all too easy to become discouraged or buy into the destructive myths out there about dating and relationships.
Life as a single person offers many rewards, such as being free to pursue your own hobbies and interests,enjoying your own company,treasuring your leisure time in isolation.However when you are ready to share your life with someone and want a long lasting relationship,life as a single person can be so frustrating, when it comes to finding the right person to build a relationship with.
Maybe while growing you never had a role model of a healthy relationship and you doubt that such thing even exist,or maybe your past dating experience were of bad propel and you lack the knowledge of how to make a relationship work thereby leaving u with the doubts of ever finding a perfect love.
Being attracted to the wrong type of person or you keep making the same bad selection over and over,due to your unresolved past experience.or maybe you are not putting yourself in the best domain to meet the right person.or even when you do,y yo don't feel confident enough
Whatever may be the case,you can overcome your hindrances ,e eve if you are being turned down repeatedly or have a bad record when it comes to dating,these tips can help you get on the right track to finding a healthy,longlasting relationship.
What is a healthy relationship
A healthy relationship is when two people develop an interconnection based on:
* Respect
* Trust
*Honesty
* Support
*Good communication
* Equality/impartiality
* Fondness
Dating Tips 1:keep things in view
Don't center your life around the search of finding love, concentrate on things that makes you happy, your career,health, your relationship with with family and friends.it will keep you in check and make you a more interesting person when you finally meet the special someone
Be honest about your flaws and imperfections: Everyone has flaws and aren't perfect.In order for a relationship to last, you want someone that would love you for who you are,not what you'd like to be,or the person they think you should be. what you take as flaws may be something another person finds peculiar and appealing.By discarding all deception which leads to an honest and fulfilling relationship you'll encourage the other person to do so.
Tip2: build a genuine and real connection
Dating is a game that is tiring and only the strong hearted can keep up,it's natural to worry about how you'll meet and whether or not your date will like you.But no matter how you feel socially or being shy you can overcome your fears and self consciousness and build a great connection.
Focus:To fight first_date nerves, focus your attention on what your date is doing and saying and also what is happening around you rather than what your internal thinks.Be fully focused on the present moment,that will help take your mind away from your insecurities and worries.pay attention and make effort to truly listen to the person and get to know them quickly.little things go a long way,such as remembering the stories they've told you,what's going on with their life, and their preference.
Put your phones away:don't get too attached to your smartphones because it might be a distraction to you connecting to the person.expression, gestures and non verbal communication tells more about another person,you must be tuned in ,in order to get better knowledge of each other.
Curiosity: when you are really curious about someone's else feelings,stories,opinions it will definitely show. They'll admire you absolutely for it.when you try and improve and promote yourself to your date, you'll see that it gets more interesting and attractive,but when you have no interest in your date therest no need pursuing the relationship further.
Tip3:look up for dating site;onl online dating and match making events are enjoyable by some people,but others may look at it or feel more like a job interview.instead of scouring dating sites or hanging out in bars,think of your single life as a great opportunity to expand your social circle and participate in new events.Make having fun your priority.by changing activities you enjoy and putting yourself in new domain,you'll get to meet new people who share similar interests and values as you.You still have engaged yourself even if you don't find someone special
Tip4:don't be afraid of being rejected;At some point in time,everyon e looking for love is going to have to deal with rrejection-it is an inevitable part of dating for both the person being rejected and the person doing the rejection.But by being honest with yourself and others , you would be able to handle rejection positively.never spend too much time worrying about it.Do not beat yourself up or blame yourself over any mistake you think you made,if it happens continuously ,take a break,reflect on how your relationship with others is,and the flaws you need to work on,then move on.Never surpress your feelings when you feel bad,always acknowledge them.Dealing with rejection is a healthy way to increase strength and flexibility.
Tip5-Handwritting on the wall:watch out for red flag behaviours,it can indicate the relationship is not going to lead to a long lasting love.Always trust your mind and insticts and always pay attention to how the other person makes you feel.
Some red flag signs
*The relationship is exclusively sexual:A meaningful relationship depends on more than just good sex,but when there is no interest in the other person other than a physical one then there's a red flag indicator
*Controlling behavior:when there is a desire on the part of one person to control and show superiority over the other,and stop them from having independent thoughts and feelings.
*Jealousy: when one partner doesn't like the other spending time with friends and family outside the relationship.
*Alcoholic dependent:you can only relate,communicate,laugh,play and have sex when one or both of you are under the influence of alcohol or other substance.
Tip6:Trust issues;you can love someone you trust but at the same time you might not trust the person you love.Trust is a very solid foundation to every close relationship.it is not just developed overnight.it is developed over time as your connection with the person goes deeper.
But if you are an insecured person,or someone who has been betrayed or abused in the past you may find it hard and impossible to trust others and find lasting love.
If you have trust issues,you y romantic relationship will be dominated by fear_fear of being betrayed by the other person,fear of feeling vulnerable or being let down.but it's very possible to Learn to trust others by working with the right therapist or in a supportive group of therapy setting, you can indentify the source of your mistrust and explore ways to build a more fufilling relationship.
Tip7: nurture your relationship; finding the right person is just the beginning of the journey,not the destination,so in order to move from casual dating to a more committed and loving relationship, you need to nurture the new connection
By investing in it because no relationship will run smoothly without attention and the more you invest on each other the more you'll grow.Even when you are busy or stressed out always make out time to enjoy free activities together.
You partner is not a mind reader,so you have to tell them about your feelings.when you both share your needs and desires the bond between you will become stronger and deeper.
Always resolve conflict without humiliation, degradation or insisting on being right,because we all have our differences ,soci so influence and different upbringing,it's very important that you aren't fearful of conflict.
Every relationship change over time. what you want at the beginning of the relationship may be very different from what you and your partner want a few months or years later.so accepting change in your healthy relationship will not only make you happy but also make you a better person and more generous.
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